On this episode of the Sexy and Safe at Home with HEAT Podcast, we chat with queer domme Goddexx Sadie about the world of kink. Deeply exploring the different facets of kink, we delve into what kink is and what it can offer, especially to queer folks navigating their gender and sexuality. Kink can provide a playground for us to explore our pleasure and queerness freely, with a foundation of mutual trust and collaboration to allow honesty and respect while we play. However, kink also has the potential to reinforce harmful sexual scripts and social power dynamics if we don't interrogate the privilege we hold and acknowledge the influence that oppressive systems can have on our sex lives, kinky or otherwise. Regardless of your interest in or experience with kink, I think this episode can teach us all something that will propel us towards our most liberated, real selves: we deserve to explore our pleasure, whatever that looks like, free from shame and pressure imparted upon us from the dominant cultural narratives surrounding sex, and we deserve to be boldly honest with our partners (including ourselves!) to ensure that we are truly exploring our pleasure and having fulfilling sex, if that's what we desire. Goddexx Sadie shared a vulnerability in discussing their personal experiences and the wisdom that's brought, so a huge thank you to them for having this conversation with us<3
Resources:
Find Goddexx Sadie on FetLife as Saddistic
Check out the Woodshed Orlando or find them on Instagram at @woodshedorlando
Read The Color of Kink by Ariane Cruz
Follow @kinkyblackhouse on Instagram for an online kink community by and for Black and Brown folks
On this episode of the Sexy and Safe at Home with HEAT Podcast, we chat with queer domme Goddexx Sadie about the world of kink. Deeply exploring the different facets of kink, we delve into what kink is and what it can offer, especially to queer folks navigating their gender and sexuality. Kink can provide a playground for us to explore our pleasure and queerness freely, with a foundation of mutual trust and collaboration to allow honesty and respect while we play. However, kink also has the potential to reinforce harmful sexual scripts and social power dynamics if we don't interrogate the privilege we hold and acknowledge the influence that oppressive systems can have on our sex lives, kinky or otherwise. Regardless of your interest in or experience with kink, I think this episode can teach us all something that will propel us towards our most liberated, real selves: we deserve to explore our pleasure, whatever that looks like, free from shame and pressure imparted upon us from the dominant cultural narratives surrounding sex, and we deserve to be boldly honest with our partners (including ourselves!) to ensure that we are truly exploring our pleasure and having fulfilling sex, if that's what we desire. Goddexx Sadie shared a vulnerability in discussing their personal experiences and the wisdom that's brought, so a huge thank you to them for having this conversation with us<3
Resources:
Find Goddexx Sadie on FetLife as Saddistic
Check out the Woodshed Orlando or find them on Instagram at @woodshedorlando
Read The Color of Kink by Ariane Cruz
Follow @kinkyblackhouse on Instagram for an online kink community by and for Black and Brown folks